Sunday, August 10, 2025

Rebbe Nachman's Chair - When Is a Chair More Than Just a Chair?

On my next trip to Israel, visiting the Breslov synagogue in Jerusalem's Meah Shearim neighborhood is at the top of my list. I want to see Rebbe Nachman's chair in person - and let me tell you why this story has captured my heart.

A Story That Made Me Think

When something intrigues me, I like to dive deep. And the story of Rebbe Nachman's chair? It's got everything I love about Jewish history: devotion, courage, and people coming together to preserve something special.

This is a beautiful story of love and devotion. From the building of the gift, to the appreciation from the rabbi, from the consideration of the protectors, to the traveler to Israel, and to the craftsmen who later put it together.

A wonderful example of how together we can accomplish so much. Each and every person had a loving role in the story of the chair. Just like puzzle pieces, when they joined together the result was the most beautiful picture.

It Started With Daily Devotion

Picture this: It's 1808, just before Rosh Hashanah. A humble shochet (ritual slaughterer) from Teplik approaches Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, carrying an exquisitely handcrafted chair.

When the Rebbe asked how long it took to make, the modest man answered: six months, working an hour each day.

To which the Rebbe's responded "Then for half a year, you spent an hour each day thinking of me?"

This wasn't just fine craftsmanship, for 180 days, this man dedicated an hour of his day to creating something with love. Every cut, every polish, every detail was an act of devotion.

When Everything Fell Apart

Fast forward to the early 1920s. The Cossacks were raiding Jewish communities across Ukraine. There was destruction everywhere. Meaning this special chair was now sitting in harm's way.

Enter Reb Tzvi Aryeh Lippel.

Instead of letting this piece of history get destroyed, he made a decision. He carefully dismantled the chair, cutting it into small pieces that he could carry. Once completed, he then ran nearly twenty miles from Tcherin to Kremenchug, carrying these precious pieces the entire way.

Twenty miles. Running. 

The Journey Continues

The chair found safety with the Rosenfeld family in Kremenchug. They became its guardians during those dark years. Several years later in 1936, Reb Moshe Ber Rosenfeld took on the next chapter, by bringing the chair pieces to Jerusalem.

But the story doesn't end there. In 1959, craftsmen from the Israel Museum carefully restored all the pieces. Twenty-five years later, Katriel's of Jerusalem refinished it again. Each restoration was done with the same love and attention as the original creation.

Where Love Lives Today

Today, you can see this remarkable chair in Jerusalem in the Breslov synagogue (in Meah Shearim). When I next visit Israel, I know I'll be looking at this chair as more than just an antique. I'll be seeing a testament to what happens when people refuse to let something truly sacred disappear.

What This Means to Me

Every single person in this story played a crucial part. The craftsman who spent those daily hours thinking of his teacher. Lippel, who risked everything to save it. The families who protected it. The traveler that brought it to Israel. The restorers who brought it back to life.

None of them could have preserved this chair alone. But together? They created something extraordinary.

It reminds me of something I always say - we're all in this together. Each of us has a role to play, and when we work with love and purpose, we can accomplish incredible things.

When I stand in front of that chair in Jerusalem, I'll be thinking about all those hands that touched it, all those hearts that protected it, and all the love that carried it through nearly two centuries to reach that moment.

That's the kind of story that makes me proud to be Jewish. That's the kind of devotion that inspires me to keep learning, keep exploring, and keep sharing these amazing pieces of our history.

Friday, April 10, 2020

Next Year in Jerusalem - Passover 2020



I wanted to impart some words of wisdom to everybody, because it's no coincidence that Devon and I are here in the Holy Land this year. 

I want to tell you a quick little story.

A year ago, Devon and I were sitting in Las Vegas doing our Seder, the two of us, and we said, “Next Year in Jerusalem,” knowing we were making Aliyah and moving to Israel.

And yet here we are, a year later, living in Israel, and we still have not been to Jerusalem.

I had a problem with the line that we recite at the end of the Seder: “Next Year in Jerusalem.”

Which caused me to think and reflect on it. I’ve come all the way to Israel, and I have still not made it to Jerusalem. What does that mean?

I really wanted to figure out what that meant. So, I went to Google, which is what I always do. I Google everything.  

I searched Google to find out what you say at the end of a Passover Seder when you're already in Jerusalem? Do you still say Next Year in Jerusalem? Do you say something else?

I already knew that your location can matter in the Jewish tradition.  

For instance, we arrived here in November, in time to celebrate Hanukkah. One of the symbols of Hanukkah is the dreidel which has four Hebrew letters – nun, gimmel, hey, and shin. The letters spell out the phrase “A Great Miracle Happened There.”

But here in Israel, one of the letters on the dreidel is different. The letter “Shin” is replaced with a “Pey.” Which changes the phrase to “A Great Miracle Happened Here.”

Knowing this, I thought, what does that mean in terms of the Passover Seder? What do we say here in Israel, when you’re already here? Except for Gillian and Devon, of course, who have not been to Jerusalem yet.

Surprisingly enough, I discovered that being here in Israel doesn’t matter. Everyone still closes their Seder by reciting the words, “Next year in Jerusalem.”

So that motivated to do even more research. Why no change?

I came across a rabbinical explanation. There's a Midrash (Jewish folklore) that says… you can be miles away from Jerusalem even while living there, and, you can be on the other side of the world but only a step away.

Jerusalem is more than a city. It’s an ideal we’re trying to reach. Jerusalem is not a place. Instead, it’s a state of mind.

And if we look at the Passover story, we start in Egypt. At the beginning of our journey, we're in Egypt, which is about our limitations. It's about slavery and restrictions. At the end of the very long journey is Jerusalem, which is about freedom and peace.

If you look at the Hebrew word for Egypt, it's “Mitzrayim” which means limitations, restrictions, and obstacles.

We’re actually in that right now. All across the world, we’re in lock down. We're all experiencing restrictions and limitations.

If you look at the Hebrew word for Jerusalem, “Yerushalayim” means the city of peace. Which is an incredible state of mind.

And I think that's very appropriate that this year we're really reenacting that journey. Here we are in a period where we feel very restricted. Very locked down.

But what I would tell you all is that when we say “Next Year in Jerusalem”, we not saying we’ll get there sometime in the future. Instead, we see it coming soon. We're moving towards that place – not only as the Jewish people, but as individual people ourselves, all across the world.

Collectively, we're moving forward to a time when we will be more centered and more at peace.

In essence, that's why even in Israel, we say Next Year in Jerusalem. It's not about getting to stand there physically, it's about getting to the stand there spiritually. Getting to that center of peace.

So at this time of Corona Virus, I think we can all embrace that feeling of renewal. Seeking peace. Bringing that light into the world.

The world is very dark right now.

But it only takes a single light, just a single match, can eradicate the darkness. We can be that bright light.

And I'm honored to be here with all of you today to celebrate this beautiful holiday because Passover is about renewal, and I love that it's not just for Jewish people.

This is for everybody, because we all want this Corona virus to pass over us.

The Corona virus is something that is affecting all of us. It's not just happening to those people.

It's happening to all of us, and it's uniting us in a terrible way. We're being told to keep our distance from each other.

And yet, the only way we can fight this is by holding hands and moving forward together.

And that's exactly what the Israelites did when they left Egypt. They held hands. They moved forward.

They walked into that water, which is only when the seas parted.

It wasn't about the seas opening up for them. It was about moving forward and going in the water. And then the seas parted.

I think that's what we need to be doing with this Corona virus.

We need to move forward, hold hands, and know that we're all in this together. We're going to get to the other side.

And the other side is Jerusalem, the city of peace.

Next Year in Jerusalem - Le Shanah ha-ba-a b’Yerushalayim

Monday, March 16, 2020

Dado Beach - Haifa, Israel


Got an intuitive hit today to do one last trip to the beach. We had seen that the weather for the next few days was cloudy (which usually means rain😞) so we decided to do one last quick trip to Dado beach. We had no idea if the buses were even running... they were... but almost empty.

After our quick trip to the beach... we did one last run to the grocery store. We were amazed at how full the shelves were AND how calm the people were. So nice to see after feeling so calm at the beach.



I'm so glad I trusted my instincts and we did one last field trip. Tonight's headlines say we are probably looking a complete country-wide lockdown in the next few days. It could be a week or longer. The Ministry of Health says that despite all the social distancing... the virus is continuing to spread. Thus, the need for desperate measures.


Update: March 17, 2020

So glad that we did the beach trip yesterday.... because that was really the last opportunity. 😎 Today it was rainy and sucky out. Plus, the Israel Ministry of Health published new restrictions. 😷 "The updated guidelines prohibit the public from visiting parks, playgrounds, the beach, pool, libraries, museums, nature reserves or other public spaces except with children in a family framework or with a pet."

Boy oh boy... people in Israel are mighty upset about the latest restrictions that came out tonight. They are mad as blazes at all the F@*%# idiots that didn't take the Corona Virus thing seriously and went to beach. 😳 Busted! But on the other hand, I think we all knew that the country-wide lockdown was imminent. Don't regret going at all.

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

Good Friends & Good Food


Had the most awesome visit with these two yesterday. ❤️ Steve & Ona Siporin, our dear sweet friends, from Logan, UT. While on the way from traveling in Northern Israel, they decided to hop off the train in Haifa and take Devon and I out for lunch. Such a wonderful visit. Great time catching up.

So this is what you get for lunch when your friends take you “out for hummus.” Wow. It was as wonderful to eat as it looks. Brand new experience for Devon & I. We loved it.


Me, failing miserably at trying to take a group photo with my short arms. I’m like a T-Rex. (Needed a selfie stick)


Obviously Steve Siporin has the knack for being able to take a great photo. I love this one he took of Devon and I.❤️ I love his caption: "Israel is good for romance and beauty! (And food!)" 

Monday, March 2, 2020

Voting in Israel


Devon and I voted today for the first time. The election held today is the 3rd one to determine who will be the Prime Minister of Israel. Let's hope that the third time is a charm.

We were happy to have friends accompany us where we needed to go to vote. It's a little scary voting in an election, when you don't speak/read the language.

Luckily, it was fairly straight forward. You get a blue envelope, go in the voting booth, and choose a card for the party you want, and place the envelope in a ballot box.

If you don't read Hebrew, Arabic, or Russian, you'd be totally clueless on WHO to vote for. Luckily, we knew enough to do our homework in advance and become familiar with all the different choices.


Having this many parties to choose from is so different than the way voting is done in the United States. Now we understand why it's hard for anyone running here to win by a landslide. Hence, this is why the "winning party" has to form a coalition with other parties.

Update:  This is pretty amazing. πŸ˜ƒ They actually came up with a way to make sure that the people quarantined, as a result of the Corona Virus, could still get out and vote today. Where else but in Israel?


Sunday, February 16, 2020

Papers Please!


Devon and I received our Israeli passports today. For me it is passport number 4. I am now a Canadian, American, British, Israeli. Truly a global citizen. 😊

What's amazing is that I actually have a passport for every single country I hold citizenship. And, I'd be hard pressed to actually choose ONE of them as being my homeland.

Each country is a part of who I am.

I was born in Canada to a family of Brits. Both my parents and my two sisters were all born in London, England. This was a big deal, because despite living in Canada... their British customs formed how I was raised.

My family did not adopt many of the Canadian traditions. Instead I grew up drinking tea, having Roast Beef and Yorkshire Pudding for Sunday dinner, and having a water bottle to keep me warm at night.

As an adult, I moved to the United States, and after 10+ years, became a United States citizen. I was delighted to discover that becoming an American would not cause me to lose my Canadian citizenship. And I later found, that I was able to pass on my citizenship to my American children.

Both my sons, are considered dual citizens. When they were young adults I did all the paperwork needed to get their Canadian documents and helped them obtain their Canadian Passport and Social Insurance Number (allowing them to seek employment one day).

While I was in the process of completing the documentation for my kids to be recognized as born abroad Canadians, I discovered I was a born abroad British Citizenship. With the United Kingdom, there wasn't even any requirement to obtain a Certificate of Citizenship. Instead, all I needed to do was simply apply for a British Passport. Which I did.

And now, here I am living in Israel. Devon and I made Aliyah in November 2019. Because I am Jewish, I was entitled to full and automatic citizenship in Israel. As my spouse, Devon was granted the same privilege.

To qualify for a passport, all that we needed to do was wait until 90 days after our Aliyah date. On the 92nd day, we had an appointment to get our Israeli Passports. I think they were delivered to us within about 1-2 weeks. We thought that was pretty darn fast.

While I don't know what the Guiness World Record is for the number of citizenships, I do know I hold the highest record in my family.

It's amazing that I happen to be a citizen of 4 countries that all play nice together and do not require allegiance to their country only.



Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Searching for Sour Cream in Israel


In Israel a gazillion "dairy products" are packaged in Yogurt like containers. When you can't read Hebrew, you struggle to figure out what they all are.

Yesterday we were making tacos for dinner and wanted Sour Cream. After doing a Google Search, we finally figured out what the Hebrew phrase was for Sour Cream and bought the right product.

Last night when we made our tacos, we discovered we didn't care for "Israeli Sour Cream." Made the tacos taste a little weird.

Of course, that's when we realized we'd mixed up the containers and had slathered yogurt all over our tacos.

Oh brother!

Tuesday, December 24, 2019

Christmas in the Holy Land


Had to laugh. Devon just realized it's Christmas Eve. He said, "OMG, we have to remember to watch Die Hard tonight!" The Whitney family tradition continues... even in the Holy Land.πŸ˜‰ Tomorrow we will follow up with our tradition of eating Chinese food for dinner. Since we weren't sure if that's a "thing" here... we'll be making our own Cashew Chicken & egg rolls.

Of course my favorite, Christmas Classic is "The Grinch Who Stole Christmas." But then again, I think I was always just partial to the little red dachshund called Max. Don't show this to the Grinch, he might steal my Max.


Last Thursday, the city of Jerusalem distributed complimentary Christmas trees to residents who celebrate Christmas. Apparently this is an annual tradition. Kind of cool.

Sunday, December 22, 2019


Celebrating our 1st Hanukkah in Israel. We've got everything we need: menorah, candles, donuts, and wine. (No latkes this year... because they don't sell Manischewitz Potato Pancake Mix here, and I'm too lazy to make them from scratch.)

Friday, November 8, 2019

Shabbat Shalom - First Shabbat in Israel


Our very first Shabbat Shalom in The Holy Land. Simple, yet very special. It’s so warm (75 degrees) right now at 6:45pm. Perfect night to sit outside and hear all the people in the neighborhood celebrating Shabbat. 

It's really interesting that Friday (in the day) begins the weekend in Israel.

When I was chatting on Facebook Messenger with Ann (an American from River Heights, UT), who  lives in Haifa, she warned me that we needed to get to the store early today because they close at 2pm for Shabbat.

So Devon and I gave the dogs a day off and walked down to the the Haifa Zoo, so we could see where all the banks are and write down their hours. We also found some drug stores (aka pharmacies). We're beginning to note prices for things we may or may not need.

By the time we got to the grocery store it was about 1pm and you could see pandemonium setting in. I told Devon that it reminded me of Saturday afternoon at Macey's in Providence, Utah. Where it always felt like people were preparing for a blizzard instead of just the normal Sunday closure.

We bought a few groceries and some tea lights, mini challah, and even some red wine.

Much to our delight, our Air BnB hosts invited us to have dinner with them. We were treated to all sorts of interesting foods - pasta with free tomatoes, salad, cooked cucumber, and some sort of bean dish. No meat because they are vegetarians, and no bread. Maybe they are gluten free?

Unfortunately, the wine I bought earlier in the day, which we decided to share with our hosts, did not go with the meal. One of the family explained that the Hebrew writing on the bottle said "Sweet" red wine. It would be more appropriate for Passover... or a Bris.

Oh well. Luckily, they had some white wine on hand - which went swimmingly with dinner. Devon was sure to grab a snapshot of the good wine, so we'd know better for next time.

We had a nice time eating and visiting with our hosts - Dorit and Moaz. In addition to us, was their daughter, who had recently been in Japan), their son and his girlfriend (who live in Haifa).

At the end of the meal we decided to turn in early. Shabbat Shalom.

Friday, October 25, 2019

Focusing on Gratitude


Still working hard to deal with the anxiety about the impending move. Today is the last day before we move into the final week countdown. Oy vey.

Devon's mom has been an absolute treasure, trying everything she can to help me get through this.

Earlier in the week Carolynn told me that the answer to everything is love. Just feeling and embracing love.

However, the next morning she corrected that and said she realized that sometimes when life is too dark you can't feel love. Which in that case, you should switch to gratitude. As gratitude leads to love.

So I got the idea that maybe since I'm feeling so much fear about moving to Israel, perhaps I should focus on gratitude. So here goes.

62 Reasons to Be Grateful for Going to Israel
  1. Free plane ticket (even if it's only one way!)
  2. I can take my dogs (even if is costing a small fortune).
  3. No dog quarantine. When we land in Israel the dogs are instant citizens too. No having to wait in a at some custom's kennel for 6 months to prove they are healthy.
  4. Instant citizenship for both Devon and I.
  5. Six months living allowance.
  6. Free medical for the first year, with no pre-existing condition limitations.
  7. Free language training. Hebrew Ulpan for 6 months to help us learn how to speak, read, and write in Hebrew.
  8. Mediterranean Sea. I will finally get to live near a beach.
  9. Get to go visit all the places I have blogged about over the years.
  10. Found Air BnB hosts who were... okay about dogs, us arriving in the middle of the night, and willing to let us use their address as our arrival address for our Israeli Identity cards. 
  11. Lots of American/Israeli Facebook friends available to help answer all of our questions.
  12. All the contacts my friend Nily has given me - especially her friend, Gila.
  13. Lots of great places to see and explore that aren't even listed in my blog.
  14. Anatel cell phone - because I can have an Israeli number AND I get to keep my US cell phone number as a virtual phone number. Wow, how clever is that?
  15. I will live in a country, where for the first time in my life, I will not be the minority.
  16. With today's technology (Zoom, Facebook, Uberconference, Whats App, etc.) I can stay in touch with family and friends.
  17. Being in the Middle East we will be in the middle of the world (great spot to travel from).
  18. If we don't like Haifa we can always move somewhere else. We are not obligated to stay where we first start out.
  19. I get to experience living in a world where people barter for things. Kind of different.
  20. Will have the opportunity/experiences to finish writing my book "Letter in the Torah."
  21. According to an Intuitive Reading I had awhile back, I have some "unfinished business from a prior life in Israel." Which means I have the unique opportunity to finally resolve this and move on.
  22. I am making a difference by being an Israeli that is a Reform Jewish Woman in an Interfaith Marriage (I'm definitely not the norm).
  23. Get to go to Safed and maybe I will "see" those mystical Kabbalists in-person (or at least in-spirit).
  24. Get to walk in my Grandfather's footsteps (Grandad Tim was stationed with the British Military in Haifa in 1936).
  25. Get to walk in my mother's footsteps. She loved Israel and wanted to move there. Maybe I'm bringing a part of her home.
  26. Israel is the Start-Up Nation that embraces High Tech. This might be a good place for my tech skills to flourish.
  27. They have a moderate climate. It's a lot warmer in Israel than when we were living in Logan, UT.
  28. My husband wants to got with me. Sometimes I think he actually wants to go more than I do.
  29. Israel allows for dual citizenship. Which means I don't have to give up my American, British, or Canadian citizenship.
  30. Dogs get to ride on the buses in Israel. Since we won't have a car. Thank goodness for that.
  31. Might finally learn Hebrew after all these years of failing miserably.
  32. Get to learn (or at least be exposed) other languages too. Russian. Arabic.
  33. Get to live in a country with an incredible history.
  34. Lots and lots and lots of beach cities/towns to explore.
  35. Might get to check out a kibbutz. I've always been curious about what they are like.
  36. Lots of sunshine, palm trees, and other exotic Mediterranean flora and fauna.
  37. Get to walk in the shoes of my own children and see/experience what they did on their Birthright Trips.
  38. New foods to taste for the first time. 
  39. Can learn how to cook (or watch Devon) new dishes.
  40. Will be living a simpler life. Won't be encumbered by what it takes to run/clean a big house. 
  41. Can carve out a new life for myself as an empty-nester. Still trying to figure out my own identity, now that my kids have grown up and moved on with their own lives.
  42. Got a referral for a veterinarian in Haifa who speaks English.
  43. My Las Vegas library card might still allow me to check out Kindle books.
  44. They have an IKEA in Haifa!
  45. We can live without owning a car (I hope).
  46. Easy to get to Tel Aviv by train and then on to Jerusalem.
  47. Haifa is the only city that has transportation on Shabbat.
  48. Lots of Jewish holidays in Israel. I will never again experiencing the conflict of trying to observe Jewish holidays in a place where I'm the minority.
  49. They have a public library. Books. (Although if they are only in Hebrew... I'm toast.)
  50. They have some nice people that I have already made friends with from the US. So, not everyone in the country will be wanting to cheat, steal, or kill us.
  51. Amazon just opened there. Apparently they are not doing well. 
  52. While they don't have an Apple Store, they do have authorized Apple repair companies.
  53. Their coast faces the "right way" for me. They face WEST. So it will be like walking on the beach in OR, CA, or Mexico. I have never liked the East Coast. Just feels odd to me.
  54. We do already have friends and family there. Steve & Ona. Devon's cousin, Mara.
  55. Moving to Israel could lead to an exciting and adventurous life. 
  56. The Bahai Gardens look like such a beautiful spot to visit.
  57. We get to do a reboot with our lives - it's truly a second act for Devon and I.
  58. They do have "groups" I can join. Like WordPress and other meetups.
  59. They have a Toastmasters group. But they are unchartered. What's up with that?
  60. Get to be part of the survival of Judaism. Be part of Theodore Hertzl's Zionist dream - "Jews returning to the land God gave the Jewish people."
  61. Since we will be walking everywhere - I might be more fit.
  62. Medical treatments might be more advanced.

Monday, June 3, 2019

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Day 687: Lech-Lecha Artist - Miryam Israel

I came across this woman's story and thought it was kind of cool. Apparently she was born in Lisbon, Portugal, and in the early 90s, decided to take a trip to Israel. While visiting Jerusalem, she had a special experience with G-d and felt like she was being called to return to her Jewish roots.

So, despite having a well established life and career in Portugal, Miryam left her family, home, and job, and moved to "the land G-d showed her." All alone, she made aliyah to Israel and began to paint. She focused her artistic talent on painting Biblical and/or Jewish landscapes, scenes, and the people of the Old City.

Today, Miryam is a citizen of Israel and continues to live and paint in Jerusalem. http://www.israelartguide.co.il/yisrael/

Even though Miryam doesn't appear to be affiliated with a specific art gallery, I have a strong feeling that I will meet her one day. I can almost picture walking down a street in the Old City of Jerusalem and there she is -capturing the scene with her canvas and pastels.

I think Miryam Israel is an inspiration to anyone who has ever felt the call to pick up and start a new life someplace else. Talk about a "leap of faith."






Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Day 686: Tzfat Gallery of Mystical Art

The Tzfat Gallery of Mystical Art. Okay, who could pass up on visiting a place with such a cool name? Certainly not me. Anyplace that combines art, mysticism, and Judaism, is my kind of place! So visiting this gallery in Safed is definitely going to be on my Israel "must see" list.  

The Tzfat Gallery of Mystical Art is located in the Old City of Tzfat, in the Mayan Haradum Square in the center of the Artist Quarter. The gallery is run by artist Avraham Lowenthal. Born and raised in the United States, this Israeli artist blends the study of  Jewish spirituality with his passion for painting. In addition to running his gallery/art studio, Avraham also offers an "Introduction to Kabbalah" class to travelers. This free presentation focuses on how the mystical teachings of the Kabbalah have inspired Avraham's art. Groups are encouraged to set up tours in advance.

Gallery Phone:  04-692-3051
avraham@kabbalahart.com



Returning Light Meditation

In the video below, Avraham discusses how this painting "Returning Light Meditation" is aligned with the teachings of unconditional love, as outlined in the Kabbalah.



Update: when my son when on his Birthright Trip to Israel, by "coincidence" his tour took him to this exact same gallery. Being a teenager, he of course had never read my blog and had no idea that I written about wanting to go to this place. However, as he walked around the gallery, he said that he couldn't help but think how much I would love it there. So, he collected a business card and brought it back for me. And guess what was the graphic on that business card?  The Returning Light Meditation of course. 

Monday, February 10, 2014

Day 685: Change of Plans


There is a great quote by the great "Jewish Philosopher", Woody Allen:

“If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans.” 

~ Woody Allen


So there I was, thinking that I had a solid plan on when I would travel to Israel. On the day that I first created this blog, I set a specific intention on exactly when I would be going to visit Israel. I even got clear on how long I wanted to go for. However, I wasn't too clear on the HOW.

But, being the woo woo kind of person that I am, I decided to say "Yes" to the whole thing. I somehow just figured that if it was meant to be, it would all work out somehow. After all, during the course of my life I have made many "leaps of faith" that worked out perfectly. The trick to this attitude is not become too attached to the answer. Which means, that you sometimes have to realize that the universe may likely tweak your goal and give you something even better than you originally thought of.

So a couple of months ago, my hubby and I decided to go out for coffee and talk. It had been quite awhile since we got out of the house and really had a good heart-to-heart about our life and where it was heading. One thing that came up during that chat was that my husband was actually not very happy with my plans to go Israel. Not because he had any issue of me going there, but more at not being included in the equation. Little did I realize that he thought 100 days was a little bit too long for us to be apart. So with that in mind, we started talking about "what it would take" for him to come with me.

One thing led to another, and we started to get a grander vision of maybe 100 days was thinking too small. If I really wanted to get a feel for what it is like to live in Israel, travel to all the places listed on this blog, then maybe we should plan a much longer trip.  Especially since I am now very determined that a big part of going to Israel is to document my adventures in a book.

At this point, I am not sure if my original departure date will work for both my husband and I traveling together.  Especially since my youngest son will still be slugging out his time in High School. So the trip might need to be delayed for a few more years... so that we are in a better position to pick up and leave the United States for an extended period of time.

However, not being the kind of person who throws the baby out with the bathwater, I am not willing to let go of my original departure date.  Perhaps it won't come into fruition of the 100 day trip I planned. However, maybe it might evolve into an abbreviated trip that I take by myself.  At the very least, it gives me a target to work towards... instead of a "someday we'll go to Israel".  I hate "someday" as it is just too vague and never seems to materialize.

 So in the meantime, I will continue with my plans. Continue with this blog.  And just keep moving forward towards that lofty goal of mine.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Day 404: Back On Track


It has been about ten months since my last blog entry. While it may have seemed that I had abandoned my dream (and blog), that's far from the truth. Sometimes along the journey, instead of a nice straight line, we find our path is more curved and we're forced to take a few detours.

"An obstacle may be either a stepping-stone or a stumbling block...Its your choice."
~unknown

This past year has been a real transition year for me. It's been a year of great change for both my family and myself. This year saw me make the transition from working part-time to working full-time. Even though I still work from home, the number of clients I'm juggling fills my entire work week. While I have been blessed with lots of opportunities for contract work, the challenge has been to stay balanced with work, family, and other commitments.

This past year also marked the end of my homeschooling journey. This Fall, my eldest will be starting university to pursue a degree in Engineering, and my youngest has decided that he'd like to experience traditional high school. So this August, one son will begin carpooling with his father to the university each day, while my other son boards a school bus. Knowing this homeschooling adventure would soon be over, I spent this past school year teaching one last round of homeschool co-op classes. Even though this meant an incredible amount of additional work, it was totally worth it. It was kind of our homeschool "swan song".

As a coincidence (are there really any?) the last class I taught was a unit study on Israel. I spent four weeks teaching a group of about 25 homeschool teens about my favorite country. I taught them about the geography, history, demographics, economy, biblical sites, and the politics of Israel. To prepare for the class, I spent countless hours doing research on all the topics covered. As a result, I found myself even more intrigued with this tiny little country. The more I discover about Israel, the more I marvel at the country's achievements.

At the conclusion of our class, I decided that one of the reasons I was "called" to teach it was to get me back on the right path. Now that my sons are moving towards their own journeys, I am free to shift the focus to my own goals.

As a result of other events that happened this year, I am more aware of all that needs to get done in the next 500+ days to make this dream a reality. For starters, as a result of the trip I took to Europe last Fall, I now know that it is absolutely imperative that I learn to speak Hebrew. One thing I  learned in France is that it's rather frightening not being able to speak the native language. While I was in Paris, a freak accident shut down the entire metro service on the day I was heading to the airport. Not being able to speak French, I was at the mercy of strangers as I tried to figure out a hasty backup plan. Therefore, I feel I must know the rudiments of Hebrew before I get on a plane bound for Israel.

Another thing I learned during my trip to Europe, is that despite preparing a detailed budget in advance, everything ended up costing a whole lot more than I expected. The life of a world traveler is certainly an expensive one. Therefore, to survive 100 days in Israel I'm going to need a lot more money than I first imagined. This is why I am now researching possible sources of funding. I have already begun to look into possible research and/or arts grants. I am also looking into the possibility of having the entire trip funded as part of a book deal. I believe that the funding out there already exists, I just have to find the people that are looking to help me.

Finally, my trip to England and France, provided me with some great learning experiences that helped me decide if I was cut out for world travel. At the beginning of my journey, I did find it a little scary to be a "stranger in a strange land". However, with each new city, town, and country I visited, my confidence began to grow. I learned that to be a savvy traveler you just need to keep your wits about you and stay flexible. Most importantly, you have to find a pace that doesn't wear you out. While you may be tempted to "do it all" you will never have the time, energy, or finances, so you need to have realistic expectations. With that in mind, I will plan my Israel itinerary accordingly.

Now that I'm back on track with my dream (and this blog), it would be wonderful if I could begin making daily posts. However, I think it would be more realistic if I strive for weekly updates instead. The key thing for me right now is being able to maintain balance in my current life, as well as work towards my future goals.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Day 103: First Aliyah Museum

Another site to see in Zichron Yaakov is the First Aliyah Museum.  The First Aliyah to Israel was comprised of families.  This brave group of 35,000 pioneers came to Israel between 1882-1904 to escape the pogroms of their native countries.

The museum is located in a very well preserved historical building.  While touring the museum visitors get an intimate introduction to the people of that time - where you learn about their hardships, disappointments, hopes, and victories. The museum features a structured tour which presents the historical sequence of the migration and includes innovative multi-media presentations, which are supplemented with historical documents, old photographs, authentic tools, and sculptures.

The museum is dedicated to Moshe and Sarah Aronson, one of the first settlers that arrived in 1882.  Their story is exhibited through an exciting movie that attempts to chronicle their life in Israel. The museum has three floors and each one describes a different period in time.

Note:  The term "aliyah" is the Hebrew word for "return".  Essentially, aliyah means to return to one's homeland.  When you hear someone refer to "making aliyah", they are referring to making the move to live in Israel.  

Friday, July 6, 2012

Day 102: Aaronson House

In addition to their fine wines (see yesterday's post), one of Zichron Yaakov's most interesting tourist attraction is the Araonson House.  Once a private dwelling, the house is now a museum that chronicles the life of the Aaronson family.  The family was involved with NILI, a Jewish spy ring that worked for the British Military during WWI.  At that time, the Ottoman Turks were in control of Palestine and the British has plans to take over.   The Jews believed that supporting the British would help lead to the birth of a Jewish nation.

The village of Zichron Yaakov served as an important center of activity for the members of NILI,  and especially its leaders.  Led by Avshalom Feinberg and Aaron Aaronson, the leaders of NILI recruited others in the community to spy on behalf of the British.  Two of the recruits were none other than Aaron's two sisters, who were both in love with Avshalom. 

While visiting the Aaronson House, visitors learn all about NILI, their secret codes, and the epic stories of the Aaronson family - which range from romance to intrigue to tragedy.  This museum is not recommended for children.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Day 101: Israel's Napa Valley

Just south of Haifa is a little village called Zichron Yaakov.  If you are an Israeli, you simply refer to the village by it's first name - Zichron. They say that this region is Israel's version of Napa Valley, as it is the home to several different wineries.

The village has an interesting history. Originally called "Zamarin", the first settlers arrived in 1882 from Romania. At that time, the area was an inhospitable place with rocky soil. The early settlers attempted to grow wheat and potatoes. That farming venture was unsuccessful and soon 10% of the population were dead.  Despite all that, the settlers were determined to tough it out.

A European philanthropist was so impressed with these settlers that he approached Baron Edmond de Rothschild in France for financial support. Rothschild sent an envoy to check out the village, who recommended the area would be ideal for vineyards.  Five years later, the Baron visited the village and discovered a thriving community.  At his request, the village was renamed "Zichron Yaacov" (which is Hebrew for "In Memory of Jacob".  However, instead of being in honor of the Biblical patriarch, the village was named in honor of Baron James "Jacob" de Rothschild, who was Edmond's father.

Due to the success of the vineyards, there are many wineries in the area.  Probably the most famous of them all is the Carmel Mizrahi Winery.  It is Israel's largest winery and accounts for about 75% of the country's wine.  Established in the late 1800's, this winery has stood the test of time.   Carmel offers tours and wine tastings, where visitors are invited to learn all about the winery and about the process of making wine.  They strive to educate visitors to the max, by even teaching you how to hold your glass and the best method for tasting all the different wines.

Next up is the Morad Winery.  They too offer tours and include demonstrations on how they incorporate fruits, vegetables, and herbs, into their wines and liqueurs.  The fruits they use are exotic - ranging from passion fruit to pomegranates.  While not quite as established at the Carmel Winery, Morad has been in the wine business for over 40 years.

The Tishbi Winery has something a little different to offer.  In addition to their winery, they also have a tourist center which boasts a popular Kosher dairy restaurant.  The menu includes fresh cheeses from the Hameiri Dairy Farm (which I blogged about earlier), fresh baked bread, and a gourmet chocolate/wine tasting center.  One especially unique feature of the Tishbi Winery is that they have a "filling station", where you are encouraged to bring in your own empty bottle of wine, fill it up, and pay for your wine by the liter.

Other wineries in the area include:  Smadar Winery, Somek Winery, and Poizner Winery.  I could see wanting to spending a few days checking out this cool little village.

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Day 100: Climbing Masada With My Sons


My Family - July 4, 1999
Thirteen years ago – I attended a Motivational Seminar, where the keynote speaker challenged us to go home and make a list of 101 goals.  At that time in my life, I was a stay-at-home mom with young children and feeling rather lost.  Wanting to make a change in my life, I took the “homework” to heart and sat down that night to create my list. 

One of the goals, number 9, was “Visit Israel – Climb Mt. Masada with my sons”.  At that time, I was the heaviest weight I had even been in my life and just climbing the stairs was a challenge.  And, my two sons were 3 years old and 19 months.  So to say that my goal - to climb a 1300 foot mountain in Israel - was a lofty one, is not an exaggeration.  However, after attending the seminar I was convinced that sometimes we have to have goals that are larger than life, so we continue to stretch and grow.

I have never forgotten that goal and I have to admit it was instrumental on starting me on my present journey of  "100 Days in Israel".  After 100 days of blogging about this trip of a lifetime, I now feel quite confident that I will get there.  After all the research and posts, there are now so many great experiences beckoning me to get on that plane in two years!  True to form, each blog post has made the possibility of the going more and more real.  I have been transformed from “wanting to go” to “planning to go”.  In my mind, it’s already a done deal.

Over the past 100 days, I have avoiding writing a post about visiting Masada.  Since I am now planning to go to Israel alone, I now know that I will not be fulfilling the dream to “Climb Mt. Masada with my sons”.  At first, I toyed with the idea that perhaps we could time separate trips to Israel together – as both my sons have decided to definitely take advantage of a Birthright Trip.  However, the logistics of doing that would really be a challenge.  Plus, when they go on their trips, they need to be free to enjoy the whole experience with the group they are with.  So in the end, I have just had to accept that I am not going to be able to fulfill the second part of my goal.

Last night, as I was thinking that today would be my 100th post, I began reflecting on the goal I wrote down 13 years ago and saw it from a new light.  I began to think that perhaps the goal was really just a metaphor for the kind of parent I wanted to become?  After all, there must have been a reason I picked Mt. Masada as the destination and climbing to the top as the goal.

Masada is more than just a mountain in Israel.  Masada is one of the Jewish people’s greatest symbols.  Next to visiting Jerusalem, it is the most popular destination of Jewish tourists when visiting Israel. To understand the significance of Masada, you have to know a little about it’s history.  In 74 A.D. a group of Jewish rebels, fighting the Roman army after the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, made history by ending their own lives rather than being taken alive by their enemy. This little group of Jews held off the Romans for almost five years - while the Roman soldiers built an enormous ramp up the side of the mountain, with the intent of driving a battering ram through the fortress gates.   When the Romans finally made it inside, they discovered that almost one thousand men, women and children had committed suicide.  Two women and a handful of children survived to tell the tale.

Today, Masada has become a symbol of valor, courage, and conviction for modern-day Jews.  Which is why Israeli soldiers climb the mountain and take an oath there: "Masada shall not fall again."  When I think to who I was thirteen years ago, I was looking for a way to incorporate those qualities into my life and my ability to raise my children.  I wanted to raise my boys to become men that would know what they wanted in life and know they were capable of achieving anything.  I wanted them to be brave enough to reach for the stars and never give up.

As I look at boys now, I know they’ve already “climbed Masada”.   Next week they are leaving for their dream trip to England and France with their Boy Scout troop.  Two years ago, they began doing “whatever it took” to earn the money to pay for the trip.  Whether it was selling food at sporting events, mowing lawns, stacking wood, or pitching hay, they just kept working towards that goal.  Sometimes the road looked very long and hard, but they never gave up.

Like my boys are going to Europe without me, I know that they will go to Israel without me too.  When they finally do visit, I hope their travels will take them to Masada, so that they can appreciate the significance of climbing that mountain – as Jews and as individuals.   In essence, I know that just having that goal for them – way back when they were babies - has made them who they are today.

So, I now feel I can finally release any angst I am feeling about not climbing Masada with my sons.  Instead, I can now accept that establishing that goal made me a better parent – as it gave me the vision to raise my boys to be the kind of people that are not afraid to climb to the top of ANY mountain.